Waking up every night at 21months

[Kazmog]

my ds1 seems to be developing a pattern of waking up at 1am or 4am and crying out for us. She then wants a drink, cuddles etc. It takes over an hour to get her back down. She is not hungry, cold, wet etc. She got grumbling molars but this disruption was been going on now for over 2 months - we are exhausted :))) any ideas?

Kaz if it is exactly the same time each night it sounds like a habit rather than an actual need IYKWIM? Google something called "wake to sleep", it could do the truck though the idea is a bit scary!!! Good luck!

Ironically she slept last night... I think that you are right it is a habit :() x