son coming back from his father's loud and disruptive.

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my son is 2 years old, he is meant to see his dad 2 days a week but my son is getting picked up by my ex' s mother and I think he is staying at hers one night then at his dad's the next. it would not bother me so much if he was coming back the same as he went away. when he comes back from his dad's he is very disruptive screaming and just being naughty as if to get some attention. goodness knows what goes on along at his dad's but it seems to me something is not right or is it because he being moved around from one place to another not knowing what is going on, thanks xx

It's probably the disruption to his routine, but I think if it were me I would just very firmly tell DS 'we do NOT have that kind of behaviour in this house and you know it'. You cannot control what goes on when his dad has access to him, unfortunately.

have tried to keep things normal as possible when he comes back will try and be firm with ds and see how it goes, thanks for your input x