lazy student mum!

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my dd lives at home with us and her ds who is 11 months old and adorable but... she needs constant nagging to sort washing, tidy up, everything gets left. My dh says leave it but a pigsty is not my idea of home.she is in her final year of college and to her credit after passing 10 gcse's started college and bf him but she treats us as her staff!!any advice wld be greatefully recieved!!

Does she pay you?
I would collect everything she leaves about the place,hurl it into her room and close the door.
Fair play,she obviously has a lot on,but i think it is fair that she does her bit.

She has just started paying me weekly into my bank-refusing some weeks as her mobile phone took priority. I think that's a great idea to chuck it in her room.Not looking forward to the feedback but I've had enough. cheers!