can i refuse a health visitor?

[acsr1987]

i really dont want one with my second, do i have to have one?

I'm always amazed by the obsession with the baby's weight. Was I really the only parent who could feel and see their baby growing. It really irritated me that my HV thought I was so dim such a thing was beyond my capabilities. Especially when I was 35 and she was about 25

Why did you add this on to a thread from 5 years ago?

I honestly don't know. How odd.