Right have two children ages 6 and 7. Recently had a marital split but this has been going on before that. They never listen and i always end up shouting like a mad woman, god what the neighbour must think. I don't wanna spend my life shouting at them, and want to enjoy them, but i feel they just drain me of all energy and end up giving in for some peace and quiet. My friend thinks i am not consistant and she's right. How do you disapline? what works best?? help!