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Missing sports day

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TantrumsAndBalloons · 25/06/2012 11:12

I have now officially become the worst mother in the world according to one of the very helpful parents at ds2 school.

It's his sports day today, it was one hour long 9-10am.
My DH is away, there was no way I could take time off work as I had a meeting with 7 other people who could not reschedule for an 8 yo sports day.

We have been to every play, assembly, carol concert, parents evening etc since reception. I explained to ds2, he was fine, well so he said, I think he was.

Took him to breakfast club, went to work, just finished meeting and I've got a text from his friends mum, well several.
1 at 9:15 saying where am I, am I on my way.
1 at 9:30 saying its going to be finished soon, I'm going to miss it.
And 1 at 10:20 saying what a shame I wasn't there, all of the other mums were there watching, ds2 must have been so sad I missed it.

I feel awful.
I'm sad I missed it, I wanted to go, but it was literally impossible.
I'm sure ds2 understood but now all I can imagine is him being the only person there without a parent to support him.
I feel like crying.

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kickassangel · 25/06/2012 14:09

I missed dd's sports day this year. I teach in the same school and had the afternoon off, so I sat and chatted to friends indoors while the kids were outside. Found out later that ddwas cold as it was raining so she missed it too.

TantrumsAndBalloons · 25/06/2012 14:33

Thank you all do much for handing me a grip, I know I'm not the only one that ever misses sports day, its just horrible when someone else feels the need to point out that you have somehow let your child down by missing one event.

I feel better now thank you.

:)

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Bugbug1968 · 26/06/2012 16:45

What a great response! I'm going to use that one myself

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Bugbug1968 · 26/06/2012 16:47

Sorry, should have said in response to lemarchsands post

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