I am working very hard at being a calm non shouty mum and wondered if anyone would like to join me here to celebrate little or big achievements along the way? I've had c b t and one of the messages that came out loud and clear is that I'm very hard on myself and that just feeds the whole thing. So wondered if anyone fancied focusing on the positives with me? Small step here-have just managed to resolve a dispute between ds and dd without shouting whilst also dealing with tired baby (who I'm now feeding). Also, everyone dressed calmly.