There are a few extra risks past 40, largely placenta related. My great grandmother had her youngest at 48, some 90 plus years ago. Society does tend to look down on older mums as being selfish, career driven etc. I was told at 26 I would never concieve naturally. Did not meet DH until mid 30s and we were prepared to seek adoption or foster. Three miracles later...........
So, fellow fluff lovers, are we all baby wearing, co-sleeping, lentil weaving, breast- feeding, home educating SAHMs who wear moon cups or washable pads?
Wore a baby once and made me look fatter.
Never Co-slept, indeed throw the little rascals into their own rooms within weeks (with movement monitor)
Never weaved a lentil. Love my meat, can knit but not crochet.
Big advocate for BF. too lazy and cheapskate for formula. Wish there was more support for new mums.
Love school as free childcare. Home educating would be my idea of hell.
Work full time but want to cut hours when I go back, largely as cannot afford childcare for full time. Should have married a rich man.
Moon cups and washable pads? Eugh! Never!