We usually take turns at going to soothe dd if she starts crying in her sleep. But lately she's only stopped if I come in and (I think) she hears my voice. She's 17 wks. Don't know if I should keep this up as. Don't want her to keep crying longer than 10 mins (which is the max I leave it) but I also want her to be able to look to dh for comfort as well. And poor dh feels rather badly that he (thinks he) can't soothe her (even though I point out I have the ultimate tool when all else fails: boobs). What do you all do?