would it be really wrong if i didnt go to xmas party?

[nailpolish]

dd's playgroup has a xmas party on friday, santa coming and all that

usually when dd1 is at playgroup me and dd2 go home and i play with her (which is a treat for her to play without bossy big sis) and then dd2 has a nap while i do housework/sit down with a cuppa/watch pip and fern

should i go and watch dd1 get pressie off santa? i have already told playgroup i might not be there as dd2 has naptime (but it never matters if she misses it)

i really should go..

but i like having a quiet time with dd2..

Nah don't go.......as if they'd notice anyway!

Do what you want to do!

agree with moondog
do what you want to do

god i wouldn't in these circs!

oh thanks

will dd1 miss me?

she will be with pals from playgroup and playgroup teachers..

and i will have to chase dd2 all over the place, she will just want to join in, and get jostled about by boisterous 3 yr olds..

i dont want to go but i know i should

I'd go ... before you know it she won't believe in santa

santa will be there from 11 so i could go home for an hour then be back at 11..

but knowing my luck she will be first then ill miss her..

would dd2 enjoy it too?

sorry just thinking aloud

np..if you're anything like most of us,there are literally dozens of things going on at this time for your kids.
It really won't matter if you miss one.

i would go, i would hate it if my ds1 was the only one tehre without his mum. How often will u get to be there when he meets father christmas with his friends?

im going

lol