YEs, my daughter is 4, and yes she still uses a dummy at night. SO, finally we have had enough, she was v. excited, to get a gift and sat goodbye to the dummy and send it off to a younger baby cousin. BUT< she is finding it hard, it's been 3 nights and she has been awake, on and off crying for it. I am standing firm and she has been coming into our bed and lots of cuddles etc. I feel terrible that she has to be so sad at the passing of the dummy! Does anyone have experience and how long will it be untill she accepts that it really is final!!!