I didn't know where to turn to. My 4 year old would not go to toilet when told and kept wetting her underwear today (this has been going on forever and I'm quite fed up with her toilet training...she still manages to wet her panties most days at least once). She sat wriggling on sofa and said her pee pee was making her not move that's why she can't go to the toilet. So I picked her up then she shouted and got very upset as she didn't want me to carry her. then she shut herself in our office. I left her as she's upset now that I have carried her up. I knocked and went in and apologized then she said she still wanted to be left alone. I came out and started giving my 2 year old her bath, then 4 year old came in and wanted bath so I put her in. I start cleaning up the rooms and find that she had taken out from picnic basket from lunch and had yogurt and some yogurt was smeared all over the sofa which is quite precious for me.
That was the last straw for me as I got quite upset as it wouldn't come off (quite well smeared in..I HATE yogurt on furnitures) I told her to go to bed immediately and no stories at all (usually two stories and cuddes and kisses). Meanwhile, my 2 year old who was let out of bath during this fiasco went to the office and managed to poo and smeared it all over the car seat and carpet around it, so I just flipped then. lots of shouting thereafter and big adult diva tantrums, then I put both of them to bed then 30 min. early withot any cuddles and kisses or stories.
here 1 hour later everything has been bleached and cleaned.
I feel like the most horrible mother and I was shouty as well and really angry banging things by the end.