My ds 6yrs is a total mummy's boy. He is funny, loving, caring and considerate (all traits of which I am very proud) - he is, however, ultra cautious and if I am brutal, a bit of a wimp - every tiny tiny scratch 'REALLY hurts' and he won't try anything he deems to be scary (eg some films that his sister will happily watch - she is 18months older). I do worry that he is too much of a mummy's boy and that later in life this is not going to do him any favours.
I know I am being rather brutal but I don't want my adoration of him (and dd of course, she's just a lot more confident/hardier all round) to make things tough for him later on.
Oh and by 'pull back' I don't mean withhold affection, I'm not really sure what I mean.
I'm probably being completely ridiculous about this and I'm happy for you all to tell me so
