What would you do?

[sunshine1986]

My now ex bf cheated on me and i left him at 24 weeks pregnant (i'm now 35 weeks). Since I've left he has only texted me a couple of times and that was within thes first 2 days but nothing since. Now it's getting closer to my due date I'm just wondering what i should do? Would you contact him to tell him that you're in labour? Leave it until after the birth? Not bother at all as he doesn't seem bothered? He hasn't wasted anytime and is already engaged to this OW he cheated on me with. I've never met any of his family and I have no idea what he's told them about me/our break up. Would you try and contact them? Thanks for any thoughts/replies.

Text him when in labour, then U can always tell yourself that it wasn't U who cut him off from his own child.

Let him know, then you can always tell your child you didn't stop him if he doesn't make an effort.

DS hasnt seen his dad since he was a week old but I would never stop contact if he ever wants that - its not my place to. Although as he didnt make contact when he was critically ill at 8 weeks old then I doubt he will but thats his choice not mine!