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Increasing exhaustion, anyone else?

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Cookiemg · 18/04/2011 12:05

I'm 39 and my DD is 2 and I feel that I'm becoming more and more tired and overwhelmed. She's an energetic little girl and thankfully is getting past the manic, aggressive stage and is more thoughtful but I feel as though I'm doing too much again. I work three days a week one developing my own business and two days in a job where I've to stand for 7 hours a day, when I pick her up from daycare she wants to career around the local park and to be perfectly honest it's the last thing I want to do. I try to lift her as little as possible as I'm not very strong and feel her weight across my back and shoulders. I like to get up at 5.30am to have an hour to myself before the ambush of daughter and husband descends at 6.30am and feel that I need to get to bed at around 9pm to be able to achieve this, DD is not sleeping until 8pm, I feel insane around ths time as I know that I'll only have an hour to myself!!!

Do others fell this that it gets more and more difficult to pack everything in as they get older, I need to downsize and build up my physical strength but what give??? I hate faceing the fact that I'm less capable because of my age but I know it will be a factor

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Butterbur · 18/04/2011 12:15

I would dispute the fact that you're less capable because you are 39. It's hardly 80, is it? You are wearing a lot of different hats, and packing a lot in, however, which is exhausting.

What does your DH do to help? He should be playing an equal role in chidcare, and if he gets in too late during the week, he needs to make sure you get enough time off at the weekend.

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