I have a 21 month old and a 3.5 year old, both boys, and am a SAHM. I am at my wits end with them because they won't play anything together. Everything is fine if one is asleep, or the older one at nursery - but when they are both together at home they constantly whine and fight and compete for my attention. I ping pong from one the other and no-one is happy. Seems to have gotten worse recently. I can't wait for them to go to bed most nights - which is sad because I had a lot of trouble having them and, if not quite miracles, they are pretty close.
Eating, sleeping and watching Cbeebies are their only common denominators!
Can any one help? What have you done with a similar age gap? Are there games they can play together, or activities that they can share?
Any suggestions gratefully received.