I was just looking at teh OU thread and was amazed how much some of you manage to fit in in the evenings. In theory I could do the same (and have always been a bit of a night person) but dh would really resent it. How do people manage to do evening study whilst simultaneously keeping their relationships in tact? I particularly hate it (and I know dh does) when I look up from the computer and realise he's switched the bedroom light out - no night night cuddle in bed. I've even contemplated going to bed then getting up again! that's nuts though. isn't it???