Deciding whether to have more children

[MarionCole]

Don't know whether to try for DC2.

DH is ambivalent (in a good way)

I would like another, but then am worried about cost/space/DS's reaction.

I am also getting on a bit so can't delay the decision for long.

Tell me what to do

Don't ask your ds - it's not his business. And too much responsibility. Tell him once you start 'showing' with his sibling - not before.

Oh absolutely seeker, don't worry, I won't leave it up to him! I just thought it was notable how he has turned 180 degrees in a matter of days.

upahill tell me more!

Why did you decide against a third?

Nosey Alert:- what age where you?

How bad is the regretting?

Id love to hear from you as there are so many posts (including mine) with girls asking if they should have subsequent children. I find when it's more than two there is alot of answers saying don't do it, how hard it is or just do it they won't regret it but never anyone who decided not to and regrets that decision.

I know at least four people who thought just one more' and ended up with twins, and in one case triplets!!

As one of the mothers (late 30s) said to me - 'it's our dusty old eggs, you know, all stuck together'!