feeling guilty

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Does anyone else spend a disproportionate amount of time worrying about their dc and feeling uuilty that the are not doing a good enough job?
I know i am being quite irrational most of the time but i wish i could stop it.

yes, far too much time! Are they as happy as other kids, im not fun enough, im not doing enough to build confidence/friendships, im too strict/not strict enough etc etc.

I would love to feel that everything i am doing is good enough, but i often feel guilty/inferior.