My DP and I are due our first baby in August, he has a 5yr old DD who's with us at weekends and in holidays.
Whilst we think she will take it well there will be a negative kick back from exW.
We are telling DSD after my 13w scan in a couple of weeks, we've held off telling anyone because I've got complications and been at a high risk of losing the baby.
We are going to get her involved with the room, 3D scan, shopping, getting house ready etc which she will love but in the meantime between now and may/June how do we keep her involved and positive about the pregnancy?