11 yr old ds2 was unable to cope with secondary school when he started in september , he had been fine at primary and it seemed like the transition was too much and there was bullying and extremely poor management of the school.
The school said they were concerned he may have aspergers or something and they refused to deal with an incident where he had been punched.
i took him out of that school and have been waiting for a transfer since the beginning of december.
but, i am really worried about him. i dont think hes in any fit state to deal with starting another new school.
His behavior has gone crazy. He is really kicking off about everything and screaming at me, then he says horrible stuff, then hes sobbing and sorry and saying hes a horrible person and keeps trying to prove that i musnt love him.
everything he tries to do he says hes rubbish at and its gone wrong when in fact hes just setting an impossible standard.
The things he says are just breaking my heart and its every day. i get annoyed with him when hes really misbehaving and acting bratty and selfish then i feel sorry for him when hes crying.
hes not sleeping like he usually does either.
one day he asked me to just kill him. i went to the doctors and they got us an appointment with camhs but they took all the initialinfo and now we have to wait 6 MONTHS for another appointment.
i expect we will be hearing from the new school any day now but i am scared it may just tip him right over the edge .
what should i do ?
i cant cope with much more.