Ds1 (5) had his photo day on tuesday morning, and had a letter sent home a couple of weeks ago informing all parents as last year we took ds2 aswell and we had a lovely set of pictures of them both! However i had a baby a couple of weeks ago and while i was in the hospital they sent the letter home and dp chucked it out and never told me about it (dp chucks almost everything out as he thinks its tidying up! ) so my mum and i went and had a lovely day shopping and when i picked ds1 up he looked very down and when i asked why he said it was his picture day today and everyones mummy was there and there brothers and sisters i was the only one on my own! i feel like such a crap awful mummy he said he was waiting for us to come for ages, i cant beleive i didnt go! plus my aunt works at the school and she said they were expecting us to bring the new baby and have pictures taken of all 3 of them! and so im absolutley gutted about missing that too! its probably a really stupid question but is there anything i can do about it, my mum bless her seems to think i could contact the photographer and arrange to have ds1's pics re-done with ds2 and dd?? is this possible do you think? i feel so bad!