so if a parent had problems. from birth, with loving and being with their child....

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what could they do about it? the child is now 7

i want to help a friend but have no idea

do help if you can
i have to go out but will read later

Family therapy might help. Or individual psychotherapy for the parent.

From you personally- showing that you have faith in them as people who can develop a good relationship.

thank you
is it possible to turn things around after all this time? i am not sure if i can manage your last suggestion, tbh, it looks bad to me :(