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Rude, petty, over emotioanl neighbour

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AnxiousLand · 06/09/2010 18:57

Hi

Whom over reacts about the tiniest of things. For example she complained to the housing association that the water from the small paddling pool that being used by her now ('best friend') neighbour seeped into her flower beds.

My son is blind and autistic and has no communication skills. We have lived in this proerty 3 years longer than above described neighbour. My son has recemtly developed a habit of slapping the stair bannister when he wants a drink or after i have just been up to change his CD he wants another track on.
Last night my son was unusually awake and started to tap the bannister. I got up to see him and the neighbour rang my bell and started pointing in my face and shouting at me that my son was this and that etc and had awoken her grand daughter from her sleep.

She has a reason to complian THIS TIME i totally understand i too like to lead a quiet life and i always discourage my son from making noise. I cant always stop him and the noise levels has become a bit worst which made her complain to me because of the 6 weeks hols and he was restless at home.

The way she has dealt with this and then lieing saying she has put up with the noise for 5 years etc has made me really angry as my son spent most of his life in hospital and unable to walk the stairs until 2 years ago

I have reported this serial complainer and just because my son is disabled does not mean i expect special treatment but a little sympathy from her would help and the fact she has lied about my son to get to me

MAKES ME SOOO MAD IN WANT TO SMACK HER
which i would not do.

She has also suggested my walls be sound proofed fair enough i said

then today she wound me up as i was politely informing her of my appt with the housing officer and i lost my cool and the other neighbour that was there is obviously on her side ( she is anybodies mate, 2 faced and bi polar) i told them both never to speak to me again.

they are soo nosey too

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AnxiousLand · 06/09/2010 19:14

I am new here and wanted to post this in the Am I Being unreasonable section

oops x

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TheProvincialLady · 06/09/2010 19:19

Are the walls very thin? Not to excuse the woman, but even moderate noise can be hell to live with if the walls are not adequate. Perhaps your HA could do something to improve?

I am sorry this happened to youSad It sounds like you have more than enough on your plate without worrying about a serial moaner. Try and rise above it if you can.

AnxiousLand · 06/09/2010 19:25

No the walls are not thin and our two staircases are paralell.
My son was banging for about 2 minutes - she is just cwackers

thanks for the reply x

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