4 year old started wetting

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Hi everyone. I need advice! My 4 yr old Daughter has started wetting herself quite happily and at will. Yesterday it happened 3 times. What tactic do I use? Angry? Soft? I also desperately want her to be dry at night. How do I go about this - any tips appreciated!

Make it as boring as possible, get her to get clean clothes and dress herself and put wet ones in hamper with as little fuss and intervention from you as possible. Give high praise to appropriate behaviour. Also see my suggestions for "Having real problems potty training ds aged 4" thread. Could also use the sticker chart idea with her if you havent already. May also pay to ask her if she knows why she is wetting herself (could be a uti, something happened that upset her eg falling out with a friend, all sorts of reasons, dont press her if she doesnt have a reason though)