that's what i was asked by DD (4) today. i told her that it's not nice to call people 'fat'. i am 15.5 stone, so i am not exactly thin.
me: "why do you love me? do you love because of how i look?"
DD: "no, i love you for your hugs. and kisses. and because you make me dinner. and because you put me to bed at night."
and that made me smile.