My parents in law seem to think it is ok that if they are in the area, that they just drop in unannounced. They have done this 3 times so far this year. I would never dream of just dropping in on someone without calling them first. They think that it is ridiculous of me to expect this of them (or of anyone), and I wondered what anyone else's views were. My dh agrees with them to make matters worse.
Please help!