well rock - i think your partners a tw8t. if i were you i would get every penny from both him and the dss over the next three months. see if you can borow a deposit and get your own rented property. you should go to the council - go in a hostel even - for about 6 weeks then they find you a house.
my take on benefit fraud is this - its not of my business to be grassin people up. expecially when the people i do know who are claiming it don't have the royal standard of living most people think.
i have 2 close relative who claim. one is on sick and gets paid for fixing cars in his hand from people ont he estate. they have a dishwasher and cable tv...OMG HOW DAR they!! their kids go to shitty estate schools, and they think that there is no more to life. he diesn't smoke or drink, she doesn't drink. they dont go out. she smokes roll ups. she gets disability becuase she can't read or write. i envy their contentment whilst at the same time knowing my kids will have a better future.
the other one is claining simgle parent, has a three yr old and is regnant again. she wont tell the dss who the father is and they deduct her benefit. the fther goes out and works hard for a living - they have cable tv - they both smoke. they dont often go out.
me i work hard allweek, so does my dh. my kids go to a good school, my lad is set for an apprenticeship next year. none of them are particularly bright - but they know that work=money and kids=being poor unless you have a good job.
we both used to smoke ( stopped three weeks ago) we go to the pub every other week. we go on holiday abroad once a year and i no longer drive a clapped out orian that cost me £500 beucase i can't afford anything else.
we have these crazy ideas - like learning to ride motorbikes -because we can afford to. when we retire we are going to france - a dream we hope to be able to afford - not once thats not worth thinking about.
the reason i singled out rickman was becuase i truly do find it interesting that people think thats ok - but what my relatives are doing - isn't. quite frankly i dont see the difference. if i was rickman i would keep schtum too - i would go on a nice holiday and buy miself some nice dresses and trez expensive shoes.
the reason i pointed out alsostuck is becuase i work in housing. i agree that maybe you didn't have the points when he was little and moveable. howver there are many disability agencies and social services who would be able to put pressure on. maybe your happy where you are and thats that - you dont want to move - whtever - am not bothered. but i will tell you that witht he info you have given me - there is no where in the country would you be waiting 3 and half years with one housing claim