I'm signing off now - have been her all day, thanks for the chat everyone, you have kept me occupied today as although not metioned all day dh and I not getting on, I asked him to go to his mums last night, he was in and out twice today and has been phoning for nothing in particular but I want my homelife to be happy and if it's not going to be with him here then I would rather be on my own - he thinks its all me but I have been here before and cant be bothered with him not taking responsibility for his own actions and saying it's me!!
Anyway sorry for that outpour away to watch crap tv before bed!!
Thanks againg for being here!!