Ugh don't read that thread when eating your muesli!
Dh and I not talking to each other. I got a bit pissed off because Tuesday night he spent it in 'conference' with a friend/client all night until 9pm, the time I went to bed. I don't mind too much because it's his job and what brings in the money and lets me have babies. Wednesday night however once all the children were asleep, he said he was off to some friends of ours and I said Ok enjoy your jollies (sarcastically) and by the time I had finished portioning up the fish delivery (order in bulk every few months) put the Ocado delivery away, emptied the dishwasher, filled the dishwasher, hung out the nappies, put another wash on, cleaned and tidied up, it was 10pm. I don't mind doing the above, and mostly dh does most of it anyway because I do all the cooking, but I hadn't realised he was staying out so late. I went to bed sending him a snotty text and have had the cold shoulder ever since. He has spoken less to me this week than he has to clients. It's the fact he'd not spoken to me the night before, and still went out all evening the next night. He says he really doesn't mind if I go out and do the same but it's not the point. He doesn't see where I'm coming from at all. He thinks I'm being mean and I should have sent him a text earlier if I was so pissed off, but that's not the point. He hasn't even had 2 weeks off since dd2 was born. There is so much crappy stuff to do around the house that just doesn't get done because it needs 2 people to do it. I've given up asking him to get a day off to help me.
Rant over. Think I'm going to Ikea.