lol at whispering parents . DS's got long hair, just got it scalato in italy, but we're definetly not MH material... well, I wouldn't mind being able to afford it, but no, no whispering here
Mc, feel really bad for DD as she doesn't get the same amount of time as DS did, but guess that's natural. and I feel a lot guiltier about going back to work (OMG in 5 days ) than I did with DS, although he was 5.5mo and not 1yo!
re camps - I think you'd have to be made of stone to feel like a tourist. because everything is in your head already, but not physically there, you just place those images into context and space. Some people (teachers and students) didn't manage to go through the whole visit, but everyone was very respectful and quiet and felt I had to pay my respects in a way. but maybe it would be harder to see it now, you now, post-children.