This has cropped up again with us and is quite annoying..
Dh (very capable and in control) wants to take our twins aged 3 and dd aged 6 swimming in the local leisure centre's shallow teaching pool. Leisure centre says only two children per adult so that pretty much rules out swimmimg there unless we can both go.
Another local pool (further away) which comes under a different borough council, says this ratio is ok with them.
Does anyone know where on earth these 'rules' come from, they do not seem very consistent? What's it like near you and how do lone parents cope? Dont go swimming much I guess