And do you moderate what you say as a result?
I don't moderate what I say on here much and pretty much consider it a safe and anonymous place to post for advice.
I hope if ds ever searched he'd find out that I love him madly but that we've had our difficult moments (which of course he won't remember by the time he's interested in searching.) I know of someone who recently posted to say that her dd does come here and search on her name and has read about stuff that's happened over the years.
So, do you think about this? If so, what do you do about it?
My ds is nearly 11 btw, knows my nickname and has done for a long time. It's only a matter of time really before he decides to find out what I've been saying (wonders whether she ought to search to see what he'd find but realises she doesn't have 4 years spare to trawl through prolific postings). Ex dh also knows but I'm fairly sure he doesn't read this (although if he did it would be fine, I'm nothing but complimentary about him as we're very amicably divorced).