I just thought this might be useful for any other amicably separated/divorced people out there - we set up a netmeeting with ex dh on the PC this evening which meant that he read ds a bedtime story (Mr Strong) from 200 miles away. It was wonderful, ds could see his dad and hear him, although not the other way round since we don't have a webcam/microphone (working on it). Still, ds talked to his dad on the phone and could see him at the same time on the PC screen and hear him through the speakers and it was sweet. We have done it before but this is the first time we've tried a bedtime story this way. Just thought this might be useful to someone somewhere!