Can anyone give me some quick advice?
Our lovely lovely childminder also does a spot of babysitting for us and won't take any money - just a bottle of wine and some nibbles usually.
However, we have some friends coming at the weekend with a 20m old and a 6m old. They never get out so we've arranged for our childminder to come round with her hubby, get to know the other 2 babies, the parents put them all to bed and settle them then go out for a meal.
We've insisted that we pay her this time, and we're splitting the cost with the other couple. I'd also like to pay for her and her dh to have a takeaway while they're here. But how much shall I offer her? What's the going rate? Is it per child or per potentially nightmarish evening?!!
What would you suggest?