I have posted before about the fact my BIL has our inheritance and for about two months has found excuse after excuse to not to hand the money over.
On Thursday we are supposed to be handing over our deposait on a new house. We still don;t have the inheitance. Dp has sat outside of BIL house all day today to try anc catch him and confront him before going to a solicitor. The house looked a tip when it is usually very tidy( dirty curtains, all curtains shut, overgrown gardens)which to me is sign somehting is going on.
BIL car was in the drive but there was not answer at the door.
I am so angry with dp for allowing this to happen, if we can't pay our deposit on Thursday we can't get dd a school place.
I have told dpI am angry with him for allowing this to happen, last week we had a huge row about it and dp walked out after I said he was not showing a commitment to our family.
Today dp left the house at seven in the morning to supposedly be at BIL house for eight in the morning. I phoned dp at half nine and he had gone into work instead in the morning and did not get to BIL house until almost eleven, meaning he missed him.
I am so stressed over this, I had to go to the doctor last week who has upped my medication and wants to sign me off work again which I just cannot allow to happen. I passed out today at work after a panic attack and had to walk out of two important meetings as I could not breathe and I had severe pains in my heart.
I have just snapped at dd and had to send her to her room so she is not inflicted by my stress driven rage. All I want to do now is to drink until the stress has gone.
I don't really want advice as noone other than dp can do anything about this and at the moment he is doing very little.