So I went to a family party on Friday so on the night I approached the dj at the party we went to to request a song, when I said thank you I touched the males arm. Went back to my partner and he suddenly got the hump. Accusing me of flirting and saying I am out of order. Bear in mind my partner is in his early 20s and this man was in his 50’s and not exactly what you would call a catch. I didn’t see any fault in my action and refused to apologise as I will not apologise for a normal interaction with another human. He is still bringing it up today and still calling me out of order saying I should apologise. I have still said no I will not be made to apologise to somebody for something I havnt done wrong in my eyes.