I was with a friend yesterday & we both have 8 year old children, mine is a girl, hers is a boy. They both needed the toilet & as they ran towards the girls toilet together, I called out "Hold on _, that's the girls toilet!" His Mum snarled at me & said "It's okay, he can use the girls!" Then she walked off in a huff. At school they have boys & girls toilets, I don't take my daughter into the men's toilet anymore, I don't think an 8 year old boy should be using the girls toilet. What's the general consensus?