My husband always comes to bed after me and I’m usually awake. I’m a light sleeper and he snores which wakes me up. When I try to ask him to turn over to stop snoring or try to wake him he often becomes aggressive and hit/punches/grabs hold tightly and hurts me. I have told him that he is doing this but he doesn’t say or do anything about it. He knows he does it because I tell him but doesn’t remember doing it. The fact that he knows but doesn’t do anything to stop it, does that make it abuse? I’m really at my wits end and don’t know where to turn