Dating someone with 3 children

[HarrietY3]

Has anyone ever dated a man who has 3 children before? The children are from 2 separate relationships.

He is a great father, doesn't bad mouth his exes and is financially stable.

Just wondered if anyone has had experience of this and what obstacles they came up against.

Three children is one thing. Three children from two different relationships I wouldn't touch with a bargepole.

That's a lot to unravel, how do you know he is a great father?

I wouldn't, there's not really a way this can go well.

If he has them all regularly, with different times or contact patterns, he'll already at capacity and wouldn't have time to put into a relationship. Nor would I want him to if it detracted from his children.

If he doesn't see them much, he's a deadbeat and I wouldn't go near.

It's unfortunate for him but I think he needs to focus on being a dad right now, and you need to look elsewhere.

So he's not stuck in 2 relationships where his children are involved ?

It's not a promising start, is it ?

What makes you say "He's a great father" ?

I married such a man. Way too much ex drama. Way way too much...
Cherry on the top of our divorce (filed by me) was never having to deal with them again..