I don’t unfortunately don’t come from a great background DV etc turns out towards the end it was some of my immediate family members who had tagged with the father of my children to instigate issues/situations this was a form of control, fast forward i am thankfully far out of that situation away from any of those people and in a much better and stronger, safe position today. It has come to light via estranged family members who have somehow managed to find me including my telephone contact details that there are a couple of ladies where i work who have been digging around in find out my background information to use as a tool of gossip/slander who have actually befriended my immediate family members including the father of my children, as i can’t retaliate i have chosen to avoid those ladies and cut off estranged family members who have contacted me to i guess keep tabs on me and to instigate inappropriate telephone conversations/slight to mild threats to make sure i never talk about what happened. Recently another young lady from where i work has joined “the girl gang at work” and has taken issue with me, dirty looks i guess a way to intimidate, and aggressive body language however this some how feels like it’s personal or something more has been insinuated, a member from the “girl gang” recently telephoned called me to inform i’m the one with the issue and that this young lady hasn’t done anything wrong and it is in fact me that does not talk to her, apologies for the long post i guess im just looking for some outside opinions how to overcome this situation which seems to be never ending.