I just need somewhere to vent as I don’t want to go on about it anymore with my friends & family but I’m so annoyed.
I split up from my ex partner about 2 months ago(we have a 1 year old) at the start of the relationship we would go on days out/car journeys without me having to plan anything then towards the end we never went anywhere or done anything in about 2 years. He would always say he’s busy working, stressed, tired etc so doesn’t have time to plan or doesn’t think of planning days out & I was to arrange everything & he would pay but I’m not the type of person to say right I’m going to book the zoo can you send me £50. He had plenty time to like girls photos, play games on his phone & take drugs.
He’s now seeing someone else & just took her to the beach & a big walk round a castle etc. I kept saying to him after our daughter was born we’ll need to get out & do stuff & he always said we’ll wait until she’s a bit bigger or when I’ve stopped breastfeeding(he hates me breastfeeding for some weird reason) I’d ask him to go a walk on a nice night & he would say either it’s too late or say if you would’ve asked me earlier I would’ve. He lives a 3 hour drive away now he never seen his daughter for a month as of a few weeks ago but he’s had to drive 3 hours to near where I am & pick her up but never popped in to see his daughter. Moans that he hardly sees her cos he works away & keeps threatening me with court but hardly sees her anyway & can find time to take her places & is perfectly able to plan something for someone else I’m just fuming.
We were supposed to go see Michael McIntyre a few months ago he bought tickets last year it was meant to be a surprise but we had been arguing so his mum ended up telling me about it at Christmas. I didn’t let on that I knew. He never even invited me or even mentioned it then got ready to leave the house one night & said I’m away to see Michael McIntyre. He sent me a picture of the place when he was there & said find stuff to do for us at the weekends cos we could’ve been here together. We ended up arguing about it told him you didn’t even invite me & he said well I’ve been enjoying doing stuff myself recently so I just thought I’d go myself but had the tickets for over 6 months & didn’t invite me to begin with. This escalated & ended up arguing for a few weeks which brought our relationship to an end but I’m starting to think he took either this girl or someone else. Everywhere he would go he would leave long before he had to be somewhere & say things like I know it’s early just incase there’s traffic etc.
He’s very sly & clever I’ve never found obvious evidence of him cheating but I think he cheated on me the whole 4 years I just can’t prove it