Has anyone else got kids that dont at all resemble you physically?

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My 2 daughters (4yrs and 2yrs) dont seem to look like me in any way physically. Whenever I see other people's kids they at least bear some similar traits, but I feel that I couldn't spot mine as being 'mine' in a line-up. It's a good job I am am not the father as I would be worried that I wasn't the biological father!
They definitely resemble dh though so I know they are ours!
But still, I get fed up with the comments from dh's inlaws that they look like dh's family and that they have inherited all their good qualities from his side of the family. It makes me feel like I am just the 'vessel' to pass on his genes instead of mine.
Can anyone else relate to this?

my family say that ds and dd look like me.
dh's family say that ds and dd look like dh

Same here. If I hadn't seen DD come out of my body, I would have thought she got mixed up in the hospital.

Total strangers have asked if I am really her mum

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Dd1 looks more like dp than me and he is not her bio father! All my girls are a lot fairer than me and when dp had hair (c.1987) he was fair so all of his family say they look like him!
All of us together
Me and dd1

thanks Megglevache..
DS1 is handsome but quite a spirited boy...
DS2 is less handsome but sooo giving with smiles and cuddles..
NOT that I have favorites..

JJ you can definitely see the oriental genes! they are lovely!