Advice needed please - HELP!!

[lenaw]

OK. I was thinking about it for a long while, nearly 2 days cannot sleep or eat.
I found some porn on our shared laptop (my DH's and mine), some 'upskirt' pics and clips of hardcore sex. Plus pics of Terri whatshername of Desperate Housewives. It was accidentally that I found it, was looking for pics of my daughte to send to my Mum and I know my DH uploaded pics from our camera under his setting.
It's really frustrating for me. I hate wearing short skirts (which he insists I should), look nothing like Terri and our sex life almost non-existent.
I did confront him about it. Did not want to do it at first but when he commented on how much I ate and what I was wearing yet again, it just came out. I am not what they called big, just tall and size 12, tho' flat-chested and he sometimes mentions boob job. Which I would never go for.
So. Since last night he sulks upstairs, I ignore him and don't want to speak to him. But I feel like he is turning it against me and will blame me for causing an argument on Easter Sunday.
What do I do?

I am sorry lenaw,
I don't know what I would do if I were you, but you should not blame yourself for his actions. He is the one with the problem and he is taking you for granted if he does things like that.

Thanks potxola. Just feeling humiliated. And dirty somehow.

sorry lenaw. tbh i dont see a big problem with pornography, its the way he criticises your looks. it seems you've lost a lot of your confidence over time. of course you look nothing like terri, to be fair she doesn't either after so much botox. is your marriage generally ok or on the rocks? this seems like so much more than the pictures you found.