Some questions about what you would think in these scenario's, thank you :)

[Sally202021]

1.What would you think about someone who was in the shopping centre and was wearing sliders and tracksuit bottoms?

1. What would you think if you saw someone drinking alcohol in the pub who then became loud and energetic seeming?

1. What would you think if you saw a couple in a pub and one of them was not drinking and was quiet and the other was drinking and was loud and energetic?

1. nothing
2. if it bothering me, nothing
3. nothing

If not bothering me

Why? Which one is you? I'm guessing either your partner finds you embarrassing or you find your partner embarrassing? Or boring?

I don't give a shit what strangers do so your question is meaningless to me.

I also wouldn't object to any of this in a relationship. Either the quiet or the exuberant one.

Unless exuberant actually means pain in the arse alchie type behaviour on a regular basis. Then, no.

3 years ago and you’re still navel gazing about this