Relationship

[Justcallmesarah]

I know this is an impossible question to answer but......
How often do you argue with your other half?

Seems at the moment it's every other week, over things like emotional support or him being dismissive, patronising. Which we all go through I'm sure it's just getting tiring. TIA x

Bickering happens often, I don’t mind that as long as it’s resolved quickly

However you mentioned arguing about emotional support, him being dismissive etc, to me that’s not something that should be argued about regularly, if at all. It should be something you discuss and changes are then made so that both of you feel respected and appreciated

It's difficult, I'm 8+ mths pregnant, he has a disability and our baby will have major heart surgery when it's born.

So we both have a lot going on. I'm getting more emotional the closer we get to due date and it's causing rifts as if I have a teary day he just asks whats wrong, and can be quite practical/ un empathetic, which leads to more frostiness because I'm shutting down.
Currently we are on day 3 of no talking and sleeping is separate beds🤦‍♀️

I have spoken to him about his mood swings in the past but I'm really not feeling hopeful or support in the slightest, the opposite really, that I can't cry around him😥