My friend has always been abit wild and 'different'. She is married, is 44 years old now. I am abit worried she drinks, i think, a bottle of wine most evenings, gets very loud and sometimes abit 'balshy'. Anyway she had a big row with her hubbie a couple of nights ago, after having a few drinks, and punched him in the face, the poor bloke now has a swollen nose and black eye. Anyway, they seemed to get over that and i went out with her and a couple of close friends the other night for a quiet meal, she sat and drank loads of vodka, which was fine. The next morning she rang me, telling me how she was pleased she was 'good' the night before, not drinking or eating much as she is on a diet, then she said she was glad she only had one glass of wine!!! Well....i didn't know what to say as she had LOADS of vodka, i called a friend who was out with us and asked her to clarify whether i was dreaming or not and she said no our friend had been drinking and drunk by the end of the night!!! Is this a problem? Am i making too much of it? Alot of other things have happened in her life, which is probably down to drinking too much. Just thought someone on here might have some advice to give.....