I wonder if I can get some different ideas please?
I am 53. I have re-married (3 years now). I have two middle 20s children.
My husband lives with me in MY house.
I really want my children to have more if I die sooner rather than later - it is set to be split equally 3 ways but I think maybe 2 fifths to my children and 1 fifth to my husband is more suitable - but I would hate him to feel "betrayed".
As years go by, I will probably change it that he can live there until he dies.
I just wondered what other people do?