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VERY JUDGEY

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zombie0037 · 19/05/2023 21:27

A bit of background, I am a gay guy, pretty easy going and try to mind my own business, into days world there is so much hate and judgement people, my attitude if doesn't effect me, its nothing to do with me. Any way, I got chatting to this trans man, who was pre-op, as seemed to have to tell me, fair enough, then he asked me out on date, which was quite a shock, I try to explain to him that as a gay guy, I am only into other gay men for obviously reason, he got so angry with me telling me I shouldn't judge him, and that he is a man and gay people should trans allies, and not transphobic, it a crazy world we live in.

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9outof10cats · 19/05/2023 22:39

It certainly is a crazy world now.

While I believe in honouring personal choices and using preferred pronouns, as a heterosexual woman I could never date a transman. Due to my own internal perceptions and preferences, I would struggle with feeling a physical attraction towards someone who is assigned female at birth but identifies as male.

I don't feel guilty for having these feelings nor do I think it is something I should apologise for and neither should you.

zombie0037 · 22/05/2023 18:32

Exactly its a preference thing, I am sure a lot of people would agree with me.

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Qbish · 22/05/2023 18:33

Yes, well, welcome to our world.

EmptyBedBlues · 22/05/2023 18:35

Qbish · 22/05/2023 18:33

Yes, well, welcome to our world.

And by ‘our world’, I mean one in which men’s fetishes or dysmorphia are privileged legally over women’s right to safe single-sex spaces.

Qbish · 22/05/2023 21:21

EmptyBedBlues · 22/05/2023 18:35

And by ‘our world’, I mean one in which men’s fetishes or dysmorphia are privileged legally over women’s right to safe single-sex spaces.

Yup. It's only now that gay men are being affected, and called bigots, that they hear us.

Redshoeblueshoe · 22/05/2023 21:26

You should follow MrMenno on Youtube and Twitter, he does some really funny stuff, and some serious stuff

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