Are all x's b******d's, or are we just lucky on here?

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I am so cross, p**d of and totally bloody fuming.

My x has ds's every other weekend. Ds2 is in the Church Carol concert and is very proud of the fact. At the moment they are practicing every week. x normally brings him here and we take him to church then drop him off afterwards. Phone call at 9am " dad won't bring me, will you come and get me", no problem there, dp goes to get him to take him to church as I had to be somewhere else this morning. As ds2 is walking out of the door x told him not to bother coming back as he was taking ds1 to watch Wigan Athletic. Both boys are very big fans and there have been loads of games on Saturdays when he has had them, but he has never bothered taking them before. Ds'2 was absolutley heartbroken.

How can you treat an 8yr old like that?

awww bless your ds2. and think its unfair to just take the one and not the other, and especially to put it as not to bother coming back! hugs for both you and your ds2 xxx

what a tosspot

My ex-BIL has just pulled something similar with my nephew. It was nephew's birthday yesterday and he usually has football training on a Saturday - not something he usually misses but one week wouldn't hurt. So ex-BIL tells nephew that he had intended taking him to Twickenham, but couldn't because of football. So why bl**dy well tell him??? There was nothing to stop him cancelling the football training, but, if he didn't feel he could do this, why tell the child about a treat he isn't going to get??

Definately think they all are. I've just had the day from hell with mine
Lots of sympathy for your ds2